It’s a truthful Sunday! I love this writing and sharing the truth with you guys everyday Sunday! But this one hits home for me!

Let’s get it going! I never realized that my self-healing journey doesn’t include everyone in it. I lost myself so many times that I forgot how to choose myself! I had to learn how to pick myself because if I didn’t, I was going down a road of destruction. Your self-healing journey is more important than choosing folks who don’t choose themselves.

At one point in my life, I thought they were for my good. Even family and friends had to be cut off because they were the cause of most of my pain. It’s incredible how folks say they want to change and continue to the generational cycles and expect you to stay the same. What sense does that make? Why would I live in self-destruction and not break the cycle?

It finally hit me that you must see that everyone isn’t for you at some point. Unfortunately, I had to learn that the hard way. Just because you were close growing up doesn’t mean you always grew together, and that’s okay!

My pops have this saying, and I didn’t seem to understand it at first, but now I do! It goes, “you have to prepare to separate and separate to prepare.” Read that again!

I run with that saying today because it’s true. Whoever is reading this, I’ll be honest. It took me 25 years to start choosing myself. So start your journey today of choosing you! I decided everyone over me because I thought it was best. It’s not selfish to love on you and show up for yourself every day! You can do it!

If you can relate, put a ♥️ below!

Don’t wait to BeGreat. ♥️‼️